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From Prescription to Purpose: Taylor Faison’s Recovery Story

GateHouse LancasterTaylor Faison's recovery storyTaylor Faison never imagined her life would come apart so quickly.

She hadn’t grown up around drugs. She hadn’t experienced trauma. She was a college student with a good childhood, a supportive family, and a promising future.

“I had never even used drugs,” Taylor said. “I drank socially, but that was it.”

Then, at 20 years old, she got pregnant. Complications during delivery required an emergency C-section and two epidurals—one of which injured her back. Doctors prescribed Percocet for the pain.

“It made me feel better,” Taylor said. “It helped with the physical pain—and with my postpartum depression.”

Before long, though, she was misusing the pills.

“I started asking for more even when I didn’t need them,” she said. “And they kept giving them to me.”

 

A Downward Spiral

After dropping out of Delaware State University, Taylor moved back to her small hometown of Lewisburg, Pennsylvania, to raise her newborn daughter. She felt isolated. All her friends were still in school. Her child’s father was incarcerated. Her identity was unraveling.

“I was lonely,” she said. “I felt like I had gone from being this bright, ambitious 20-year-old to being stuck—like my life had ended.”

When her prescriptions expired, she began buying Percocet on the street.

“I didn’t even know that was an option,” Taylor said. “Eventually, I couldn’t stop.”

The behavior escalated when her daughter’s father was released from jail and moved in. He was abusive, putting her in the hospital multiple times, she said. The most traumatic moment came when he held her and her infant daughter hostage for three days.

“He wouldn’t let us leave the room,” Taylor said. “I couldn’t eat. I couldn’t feed her. I had no clothes on. I thought I wasn’t going to survive.”

On the third day, he stepped into the bathroom and Taylor saw her chance. She pushed the door open and ran to freedom.

 

Chasing Relief—and Losing Everything

The GateHouse Taylor Faison's recoveryTaylor turned to heroin when she couldn’t find pills.

“I told myself I’d never do it” she said. “But one night I was so sick, I gave in. I did a little bit—and I felt better instantly. That’s all it took.”

Soon she was using daily and began injecting.

“Everything unraveled fast after that,” she said. “I lost my apartment. I started selling just to support my habit.”

Her young daughter was still living with her at the time.

“There were nights I’d leave her sleeping in her crib and drive to Williamsport to get drugs. I’d pray she’d still be there when I got back,” Taylor said.

When her mother discovered needles in her belongings, she was kicked out—and lost custody.

“In a way, it was a relief,” Taylor admitted. “I didn’t have to lie anymore. I didn’t have to pretend.”

She moved in with a man who also used. Within two weeks, her mother called and told her a detective was looking for her. She had been under surveillance. She had no idea someone she knew had turned into a police informant.

 

Jail, Drug Court, and Denial

Taylor turned herself in, thinking it would be a minor offense.

“The house I lived in had been in a school zone, which resulted in added charges,” she said. Her mother let her detox in jail before posting bail.

Taylor was recommended for drug court and accepted into the program, but she wasn’t ready for recovery.

“I thought I could stop when I needed to. But I couldn’t,” she said. “At that point, I was no longer chasing a high. I was using just to feel normal and not feel sick.”

One night, with her daughter and some “friends” in the car, Taylor overdosed. Instead of rushing to get her help, her friends dumped her lifeless body on the sidewalk, dropped her baby next to her, and drove off.

“I didn’t wake up until I was at the hospital. And the first thing I did when I came to? I called those same people for more,” she said. “That’s how sick I was.”

Taylor was given an ankle monitor. She cut it off … and overdosed again. And once again, she wound up in jail. 

 

Taylor Faison's Success Story with The GateHouse

A Moment of Clarity

As before, she detoxed cold turkey. Unlike her previous incarceration, which lasted just a few weeks, Taylor endured months of post-detox depression. She began to confront her demons. It was an inflection point.

“This was the first time I was clean and clear-headed,” Taylor said. “No fog. No drugs. Just me—and the wreckage I’d caused.”

She called her mom, who refused to speak with her. Her daughter cried for hours on a missed Mother’s Day visit.

“That was it,” Taylor said. “That was my breaking point.”

She entered Concept 90, a long-term rehab program. There, she began to see the bigger picture.

“It wasn’t just the drugs. It was everything—my behaviors, my mindset, my choices,” she said. In one family session, her loved ones told her how her addiction had impacted them. “Even my brother’s girlfriend spoke. And I realized I wasn’t just hurting myself. I was hurting everyone in my life, everyone I loved.”

 

A New Direction at The GateHouse

When her rehab counselor suggested she continue her recovery at The GateHouse, Taylor agreed.

“I knew couldn’t go back to Lewisburg. Too many people, too many triggers,” she said. “The GateHouse was a fresh start.”

Taylor was accepted into the Residential Extended Care program and found structure, support, and purpose.

“Being surrounded by women in recovery helped me see I wasn’t alone,” she said. “The counselors helped me see I wasn’t a bad person—I was just a sick person who could get better.”

Taylor eventually entered GateHouse Transitional Living and became a house manager.

“That meant everything to me,” Taylor said. “No one had ever trusted me before. And now, I was helping other women stay clean.”

 

Healing, Stability—and a Second Chance at Motherhood

The GateHouse Taylor Faison motherhoodShe stayed for a full year, working at a local diner and focusing on herself.

“My mom said, ‘Take the time you need. Don’t rush to get your daughter back—build your foundation first.’”

She did. She got her own apartment and regained custody.

“The day I got my daughter back was the happiest day of my life,” Taylor said. “I was taking her to kindergarten, packing lunches—I was a mom again.”

But recovery isn’t always a straight line. After three and a half years clean, Taylor smoked marijuana with a friend. She now has five and a half years clean.

“One puff. That’s all it took to remind me how close I still was to relapse,” she said. “I called my sponsor. I went to a meeting. I told on myself, and that saved me.”

 

Building a Life Beyond Her Wildest Dreams

Taylor Faison's life after The GateHouseToday, Taylor lives in Williamsport with her boyfriend of six years. Together, they own SAARS Disposal, a thriving waste management business serving nearly 3,000 customers. They recently bought their dream home and are expecting their fourth child, including Taylor’s stepdaughter and their first son.

Her oldest daughter is now 12 and blossoming into a competitive gymnast.

“My youngest daughter has never seen me use—and she never will,” Taylor said. “That alone makes everything worth it.”

She credits The GateHouse—and the people who believed in her—for helping her reclaim her life.

“The program helped me become someone my daughter can look up to,” Taylor said. “I didn’t think that would ever be possible. But here I am.”

 

To watch Taylor recite a poem celebrating her first year clean, click here. 

 


The GateHouse is here for you, whether you need outpatient support, transitional living, or residential extended care programs. If you’re looking for help now, give us a call at 717-393-3215 or reach out to us today to get started.


 

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From Chaos to Clarity: Natasha’s Recovery Journey

Natasha's Success Story with The GateHouseWhen Natasha McCall walked through the doors of The GateHouse the day after Christmas in 2018, she didn’t know she was entering the place that would transform her life. She had other plans … and those plans included palm trees and sunshine.

“Right when I got there, I told my counselor I was going to Florida,” she said. “I said coming to The GateHouse was just a temporary insurance thing.”

But the only program that accepted her was The GateHouse. And, as it turns out, that was exactly where she needed to be.

A Childhood in Turmoil

Natasha’s story begins in a whirlwind of instability.

By the time she entered kindergarten, she and her mother had moved 12 times. She was raised amid emotional chaos by a mom whose fear of the Rapture colored every corner of their world. Shuffled between her mother’s religious fervor and her churn of romantic relationships, Natasha was often left to her own devices.

Her first drink came at age 11, handed to her by a family member.

“I didn’t even really understand how it made me feel,” she said. “I just liked that I fit in. I didn’t feel self-conscious. I didn’t have to feel my feelings.”

What started with alcohol quickly escalated to hallucinogens, pills, and even heroin—all before she was even 16.

“It just kept progressing,” she said. “And it didn’t stop for 25 years.”

Motherhood at 15

Natasha and her sonAt just 15 years old, Natasha became a mother and immediately felt the weight of responsibility settle on her shoulders. She was desperate to provide some sense of stability for her newborn son.

“So, I did what any 15-year-old trying to build a family might think to do,” she said. “I got married.”

The marriage wasn’t to her child’s father, but to a 19-year-old man she barely knew. The relationship was rocky from the start. Both were struggling with substance use, and Natasha was still a child herself. The marriage lasted just six months.

“I had just turned 16 when we got married, and it ended that December,” she said. “It was like we were just playing house. We had no idea what we were doing.”

Still, Natasha tried to do the right thing. She got her GED, became a nurse’s aide at 17, and tried to raise her son with whatever stability she could muster.

Then, tragedy occurred. When her son was four, his biological father suddenly reappeared and took Natasha to court to gain visitation rights. On his very first overnight visit, the boy’s father abused him. It was a significant enough event that the man was arrested, convicted, and sentenced to 20 years in prison.

The experience was devastating for Natasha.

“I was already doing everything I could just to survive and be a good mom,” she said. “But that moment broke something in me. It was one of those things you don’t bounce back from—you just carry it differently.”

Transitioning to “Adulthood”

As she entered her 20s, Natasha did her best to cope. She kept working, raising her son, and searching for some semblance of order in her life. But the stability she longed for always seemed just out of reach.

Amid the chaos, she leaned on something she thought was safe: prescription medication.

“I figured if it was prescribed, it had to be okay,” she said. “I was taking Xanax, Valium, painkillers—whatever the doctor gave me. Every day.”

To the outside world, it looked like she was functioning. She had a steady job, paid the bills, and tried to keep life moving forward. But underneath it all, the pills were helping her maintain a fragile version of normal.

“I wasn’t partying,” she said. “I was surviving. But I can see now that I was abusing those meds. I just didn’t want to feel anything.”

By her 30s, things began to unravel. Her substance use disorder was no longer something she could control or conceal.

“I was getting high at work,” Natasha said. “I was missing events. Stealing from jobs. It was constant.”

Hitting Bottom

Even as her life spiraled, Natasha kept trying to “fix” things on her own. She swapped one substance for another, moved from place to place, all the while going on and off methadone.

A turning point came when her mother became gravely ill.

In the hospital for months, her mother’s health issues coincided with Natasha’s own deepening spiral. Sleeping in cars, staying with drug dealers, and ultimately losing a pregnancy due to her inability to stay clean, Natasha found herself homeless and alone in a Rutter’s parking lot.

“I had no money, no drugs, no one to call,” she said. “Weirdly, I had an NA book in my glovebox. I don’t know why. I really don’t. But I started reading.”

She picked up the phone and called Cove Forge. They had a bed. She went that same night.

“You have to understand—that never happens,” Natasha said. “You don’t just call a place like that and get a bed the same day. It honestly felt like divine intervention. Like something—someone—wanted me to live.”

The GateHouse Changes Everything

Although she had been to Cove Forge before, Natasha had never stayed through the program. But this time, something was different.

“I just knew I couldn’t go back to the life I was living,” she said.

Natasha and her friend from The GateHouseShe completed detox, stayed for rehab, and entered the partial program. Her next plan? Florida.

“My plan was to go recover in Boca Raton,” she said, laughing. “I thought I’d start fresh in the sunshine, maybe stay with my sister. That was the dream.”

But her insurance had other ideas—it required her to stay in Pennsylvania. She applied to several halfway houses across the state. All of them turned her down.

Except one.

“The GateHouse was the only place that said yes,” Natasha said. “And honestly, it was the best ‘no’ I ever got.”

When the doors of The GateHouse opened to her on that cold day in December, Natasha had no idea what she was walking into.

“I thought I’d just be living in a house, going to some meetings,” she said. “Instead, they handed me a chore list and told me I had to cook dinner for 27 women.”

A Moment of Truth

Despite the challenge, she leaned in.

“It was like everything I missed in childhood,” Natasha said. “There was a routine. I had responsibilities. But I was a part of something. I learned how to make my bed, do my own laundry, and be accountable.”

She stayed in Residential Extended Care for four months before progressing to Gatehouse Transitional Living. There, she found not just recovery—but clarity, purpose, and connection.

After her time at The GateHouse, Natasha moved to Columbia, PA, and things began to shift. She entered a relationship and moved in with a partner who was still actively using. The environment became toxic, and Natasha found herself slipping away from the practices that had kept her grounded.

The GateHouse alum Natasha“I wasn’t calling my sponsor. I wasn’t going to meetings,” she said. “I was still trying to hold things together, but I wasn’t doing the work.”

Eventually, she relapsed, and, probably due to her long period of abstinence, she overdosed.

Fortunately, her best friend, whom she had met during her time at The GateHouse, was also living with them at the time. Unlike Natasha and her partner, Natasha’s friend was still in recovery and wasn’t using. She was the one who stepped in.

“She gave me Narcan and did CPR,” Natasha said. “She saved my life.”

The moment jolted her back into focus.

“That was my jarring experience,” she said. “It shook me awake.”

Natasha and her partner moved to the City of Lancaster, but within a few weeks her partner moved out and Natasha recommitted fully to her recovery. She attended 90 meetings in 90 days, reconnected with her sponsor, and rebuilt the structure she had learned during her time at The GateHouse.

Building a New Life

Today, Natasha is thriving.

While she still lives in the same apartment she moved into after recovery, she works full-time in accounting and is pursuing her bachelor’s degree in behavioral science, with plans to earn a master’s in mental health counseling.

Most importantly, she’s become a pillar of strength in her family. Her son—now an adult—is in therapy and navigating his own healing journey. Her sister has reduced her drinking. Even her mother has become more open about addiction and recovery.

“I went from being the cautionary tale to being the inspiration,” Natasha said.

Looking Forward

Natasha plans to become a therapist whose focus areas are trauma and substance use disorder. She’s already begun to use her story to help others.

“Recovery gave me the space to grow, to go through phases, and to be loved through them,” she said. “I missed a lot growing up. Now I get to reclaim that.”

 


The GateHouse is here for you—whether you need outpatient support, transitional living, or residential extended care programs. If you’re looking for help now, give us a call at 717-393-3215 or reach out to us today to get started.


 

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Rewriting the Future: Bob’s Journey to Recovery

Bob Esque profileAt 32, Bob Esque lives a life that once felt unimaginable. He’s a small business owner, a proud father, and is preparing to marry the love of his life.

But behind his grounded, hopeful present lies a chaotic past filled with substance use, repeated incarcerations, and fractured relationships.

“I was willing to be anybody who wasn’t the old me,” Bob said. “As long as I didn’t become that guy again, I was all right.”

 

The Thirst of Adulthood

Bob’s story doesn’t begin in trauma. Raised in Chester County in what he described as a typical “functional” home, he saw alcohol as a symbol of adulthood.

“The men drank beer, the women drank wine,” he said. “That’s what we did.”

Eager to be seen as older and more mature, Bob had his first beer at age 11, handed to him by his father with a quiet “don’t tell your mother.”

That early exposure laid the groundwork for a long and dangerous relationship with alcohol. When he couldn’t get beer, he turned to marijuana. By his mid-teens, his substance use had deepened, and when he was around 15 or 16, his mother eventually kicked him out of their Chester County home. He spent about six months couch-surfing with friends, some whose parents turned a blind eye, others who normalized the behavior entirely.

“We’d skateboard, ride dirt bikes, play basketball, but eventually, all we did was drink,” he said. “Alcohol took over completely.”

At some point, though, Bob said he noticed that even the people he partied with were pulling away.

“Even some of my friends at the time, even they were pushing me away,” Bob said. “And I’m like, ‘Whoa. If he doesn’t even want anything to do with me, this has got to be pretty bad.'”

And yet, the chaos continued.

 

The Spiral from Teenager to Inmate

Bob before recovery with The GateHouseHis senior year of high school was marked by increasingly severe legal troubles, including marijuana possession charges and burglary. His first stint in Chester County Prison came during gym class, where officers came to his school, arrested him in front of everyone, and put him in handcuffs.

“I was terrified,” Bob said of his first experience with jail. “I’m in there with adults. I had only turned 18 two months ago … and now I’m in there with guys who had been doing this forever. ”

He was fortunate, however. Prosecutors allowed him to enter Chester County’s drug court program. But after a year and a half, he hadn’t even gotten through the first three-month benchmark.

“I was hanging out with the same people, going to the same house parties,” Bob said.” I was sober, but not in recovery. I was still very much in the game.”

At one point, he found himself in a high school classroom wearing an alcohol monitor that buzzed during lessons. Still, he finished school and earned his diploma—one of the few bright spots during this early dark period.

 

The Breaking Point

Bob’s turning point came not with a single catastrophic event, but through a series of mounting realizations. One moment of self-awareness—when he realized he had more experience with incarceration than a man twice his age—marked a shift in how he viewed his life trajectory.

“I was 20 years old and in Chester County Prison for like the seventh or eighth time,” he said. “One day, there’s, like, this 45-year-old man who’s in there for the first time. You could tell he wasn’t made for prison. And there I am, calming him down, telling him what’s going to happen next. It was bizarre. That’s when I first realized, ‘This is my life.’”

By the time he returned for his ninth incarceration before age 23, Bob was unraveling. When he was released in early December, he was lost, friendless, and hopeless. On Christmas Eve, desperate to escape his addiction but unable to trust himself on the outside, he walked into the state police barracks and asked to be arrested.

“They looked at me and said, ‘Kid, go home. It’s Christmas Eve,’” Bob recalled. “I actually wanted to go to jail, and they wouldn’t take me.”

It was one of the lowest points of his life. Lost, alone, and hopeless, not even alcohol could help him anymore, he said.

“It was still giving me all the physical effects, but none of the relief,” Bob said. “My only solution to life had stopped working.”

Finally, his probation officer called him to tell him the warrant he had been asking for had been issued. On January 31, 2016, he turned himself in for what would turn out to be his last stretch in prison.

Those first few weeks in jail were his worst. He had given up alcohol, his substance of choice, and his abstinence only exacerbated the experience. He hallucinated, couldn’t differentiate dreams from reality, and trembled through withdrawal. As scary as it was, he was resolute and determined.

“Finally, I felt safe … from myself.”

 

The GateHouse

Bob at The GateHouseAfter seven months in jail and a 90-day stay at Colonial House rehab in York, Bob’s counselor mentioned a place called The GateHouse in Lititz.

“I said, anywhere but home,” he recalled. “Send me anywhere but back to what I’m used to.”

He arrived at The GateHouse and quickly immersed himself in the program.

“The in-house meetings, the counseling, the structure—I knew I needed it,” he said. “Even the packet work everyone hates—I did it because I knew it was necessary.”

He completed his three-month stay and transitioned into The GateHouse’s Recovery Environment Integration program (which is now GateHouse Transitional Living) for four more months.

That structure, and the support it provided, helped Bob rebuild his life with intention.

 

Rebuilding and Giving Back

Today, Bob owns a lawn care business, shares a home with his fiancée, and is a dedicated father. He still works occasional hours at the job he first held while at The GateHouse, as well—proof of the relationships and trust he’s built over time.

“I was that guy in jail who knew the routine, telling others what would happen next,” he said. “Now, I go back to The GateHouse—not as a resident, but to offer jobs to people who are living there and working the program. Three of them are working for me right now.”

Bob’s relationships have transformed, too. Once considered unreliable, he’s now known for his integrity.

“I’ve been told I’m really good at setting boundaries,” he said with a chuckle. “But mostly, I just try to be honest. That honesty brings the right people into my life.”

He’s also made peace with his past. Though his mother still chooses not to be in contact, his father, still quiet and cautious, calls him secretly every year on his birthday.

“He cares,” Bob said. “He just doesn’t want to fight. And I get that now.”

 

A Future Worth Fighting For

For Bob, success isn’t just about staying on the recovery path; it’s staying open to growth, new experiences, and meaningful relationships. He’s living proof that recovery is possible and that with the right support and structure, anyone can reclaim their life.

“I still don’t know who I am fully,” he admitted. “But I now know who I’m not—and that’s enough.”

 


 

The GateHouse is here for you, whether you need outpatient support, transitional living, or residential extended care programs. If you’re looking for help now, give us a call at 717-393-3215 or reach out to us today to get started.

 


 

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Finding Purpose Through Pain: Jason’s Recovery Journey

Jason GradyJason Grady’s path to recovery started with a hamburger.

At 28, Jason Grady was living his calling as a paramedic and firefighter near Pittsburgh, saving lives and building a future. A seemingly minor incident – a broken tooth from biting into a hamburger – nearly destroyed everything.

“Being a medic, the ER doc doped me up pretty good,” Jason recalled. What followed was a descent into addiction that would span more than a decade.

“It’s almost like falling in love,” he said. “Before I knew it, it was pills every day, and then heroin, and then selling drugs.”

The irony wasn’t lost on Jason. His medical expertise, which had once saved lives, now enabled his deepening addiction.

“Being a paramedic, I was very well-versed with needles,” he said. “That was a horrible decision. After that, there was no turning back.”

 

A Decade of Struggle

Jason Grady, The GateHouse success storyFor ten years, Jason’s life became an exhausting cycle of attempts at recovery followed by devastating relapses. He cycled through nine treatment programs and multiple incarcerations. Each time, he thought he could get back on track, only to find himself pulled back into addiction’s grip.

The pain of withdrawal in jail – “cold turkey, you’re gonna grin and bear it” – became a familiar torment.

“They basically stick you in a corner where you can puke and s–t yourself,” he said bluntly. “It’s a horrible experience.”

But even after enduring withdrawal and serving nine months behind bars, Jason would find himself using again within weeks of release.

As the cycle of addiction, jail, and relapse continued, Jason’s family life became horribly fractured. He lost a brother to alcoholism. He lost a cousin to an overdose. Today, at 41, he fears he may lose another cousin to addiction.

“I keep trying, but …” he said, trailing off.

Perhaps the most difficult part of Jason’s journey has been the toll those years took on his relationships with his three children: a 19-year-old daughter he hasn’t spoken to in a decade, an 11-year-old son still struggling to forgive him, and a 4-year-old son he’s working to stay connected with. The weight of these broken relationships haunts him, especially when he recalls the painful event in 2023 that finally shattered his world: an overdose … with his youngest son downstairs.

Faced with how close he’d come to leaving his young son fatherless, Jason finally found the motivation that had eluded him through all his previous attempts at recovery. This time would have to be different.

“That was the catalyst,” he said. “Somewhere between White Deer Run and The GateHouse, I told myself that nothing else mattered anymore because if I didn’t do this, I was gonna die.”

 

Finding The GateHouse

Jason had heard about The GateHouse during previous treatment attempts – it was known as “the best halfway house in the state,” he said. He applied, but the waiting list was long. Through what he now sees as divine intervention, a paperwork error by his case manager led to his immediate placement at The GateHouse instead of another intended destination.

“That first week, I was still skeptical,” Jason said. “I was thinking, ‘I don’t know if I want to be here.’ But the people were so patient – not just the staff, but the other guys in the house, too. I met a lot of really good people in there, some of whom I’m still in contact with.”

The GateHouse’s structured environment gave Jason something he hadn’t found in his previous recovery attempts: time to catch his breath and heal.

“That first month at the GateHouse gave me a lot of time to sit and think,” he explained. “At some point, I realized going home is no longer an option because going home is what I did every time and every time, I wound up back where I started.”

 

Jason Grady with his partner

A New Path Forward

During his stint at The GateHouse, Jason met his sponsor, who worked at Blueprints, where Jason now serves as a Program Counselor.

“He’s so gung-ho, and he’s so down to earth that I couldn’t help but just dive in,” Jason said. “Between him and his alternative therapy modality, everything just clicked.”

Today, Jason is pursuing his degree in social work through the University of Phoenix and is working to turn his past struggles into a foundation for helping others. Through an innovative UOPX program called Sophia, “I’ve done half my undergrad in months, which is wonderful,” he said.

His relationship with his four-year-old son is healing, and he’s building a new life with his girlfriend, whom he met while in recovery.

While reconciliation with his older children remains uncertain, Jason approaches it with hard-earned wisdom: “There was a lot of harm done back then. And so, it’s going to be on their terms … If they want to, I’m here. If not, I understand.”

 

Living in the Present

“If the program taught me anything, it’s that the further away from your fundamentals you get, the worse off you are,” Jason said. “It doesn’t matter if you got 10 years clean or 10 days – staying close to the things that kept you clean early on will keep you clean later on.”

When asked about the future, Jason said he approaches it in the context of his recovery journey.

“I know I’m gonna finish school; keep working in the field because I love it,” he said. “Where I’m gonna end up? What I’m gonna do? That’s still up in the air. The program taught me the past is full of resentment and the future is full of anxiety. Stay in the present and live for today.”

His focus now is giving back what was given to him and being the best version of himself so he can help others find their way. He especially enjoys running in-house meetings and doing one-on-one interventions with clients, drawing from his own experiences to help others navigate their recovery journey.

“At the end of the day, I wouldn’t be here if I hadn’t gotten there,” Jason said. “The GateHouse was life-changing for me, just like it is for lots of other people. It’s beautiful, and I support it 110 percent.”

 

Jason Grady and friends

 


 

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Ripples of Change: How Mentorship Shapes Culture at The GateHouse

“Restoring the Human Spirit Through Recovery.”

Jodi O'Reilly
Jodi O’Reilly

At the core of The GateHouse mission is a principle that resonates deeply within our community and the recovery community at large: mentorship. 

From those first uncertain stages of the recovery process to helping others rebuild their lives and become contributing members of the community, mentorship is at the heart of everything we do. 

While mentorship is not a new concept in recovery, it is certainly one that Executive Director Jodi O’Reilly fully embraces and has embodied throughout her tenure with The GateHouse. Her approach to mentorship underscores the importance of support, learning, and mutual respect in the recovery community. It’s about creating a nurturing environment where everyone, from staff to residents, is encouraged to share, learn, and grow together.

The Power of Leadership in Recovery

“Anyone can be a leader,” Jodi said. “Whether it’s a house manager or a resident, people want to follow the people they believe in.”

For Jodi, mentorship is leadership. It’s a commitment to helping and serving others, and it can create a powerful and positive change, one life at a time. 

“It’s like a pebble being thrown into the water,” she said. “That first moment of contact can have a lasting, rippling effect. I’ve experienced it first-hand.”

The Ripple Effect in Action

In many ways, Jodi is a ripple herself, pulling from the energy of leaders and mentors who have shaped her understanding of recovery and widening the circle to ensure others carry the mission forward. 

“It’s important to lead from a place of compassion and understanding,” she said. “It’s about creating a culture of inclusion, development, and empowerment.”

Cultivating a Culture of Support

As the leader of the organization for the last eight years, Jodi said the culture that exists at The GateHouse is largely due to the selfless dedication and determined commitment of the entire team. Part of her job, she said, is to provide the support, resources, and mentorship necessary for them to thrive in their roles. 

“I want our staff to know they are appreciated and valued,” Jodi said. “These individuals are the heart of our organization, and it’s important they have the support and encouragement they need to serve our clients.”

A Personal Journey

Jodi said she was an admirer of The GateHouse long before she became its executive director. Both through her own recovery journey and her subsequent professional development, she said the organization was well-known for the lives it touched and saved. It’s what drew her to it.

“I’ve known a lot of people who have been through The GateHouse,” she said. “I witnessed the organization touch so many lives, and I deeply connected with its mission.”

Sustaining the Mission through Community

She’s not alone. Many former staff members and leaders have remained active with the organization, from being involved with fundraising efforts to attending events to mentoring others.

“I am fortunate to be surrounded by courageous, brilliant people who have incredible lived experiences,” Jodi said.  “These are the people who keep me focused on the mission.”

Looking Forward: Building on a Legacy

As The GateHouse embarks on its 52nd year in operation, Jodi said she is grateful for the mentors she’s had and the mentorship she’s seen carried out by others.

“I’m just here to do the work I was led to do,” she said. “My hope is that I’m building on the legacy of everyone who has mentored me and contributed to this organization so significantly for the last half century.”

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The GateHouse is Central Pennsylvania’s leader in accredited recovery care, recognizing the unique challenges individuals face on their journey to recovery. For more than 50 years, we have helped individuals in our community restore their lives and rediscover the strength of the human spirit.

We provide each client with a support system that helps them break the cycle of substance use disorder and put them on the path to recovery. The GateHouse is here for you, whether you need outpatient support, transitional living, or residential extended care programs. If you’re looking for help now, give us a call at 717-393-3215 or reach out to us today to get started.

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Spring Cleaning Your Life: Decluttering for Better Mental Health in Recovery

As the seasons change and we welcome the renewal that spring brings, it’s a perfect time to consider not just the physical clutter that might be filling our spaces but also the mental clutter that can occupy our minds and derail our recovery.

In the journey of recovery, every step counts, and decluttering can serve as a powerful metaphor for shedding the unnecessary burdens we carry, both physically and emotionally. This process can significantly impact our mental health, providing a clearer, more focused path to personal growth and healing.

The Impact of Clutter on Mental Health

Research has shown that physical clutter can significantly impact stress levels, sleep quality, and overall mental well-being. In the context of recovery, where maintaining mental health is paramount, the effects of clutter can be even more pronounced.

Physical clutter can serve as a constant reminder of the tasks we have left undone and contribute to feelings of anxiety and despair. It can also make it challenging to relax, both physically and mentally, and can hinder our ability to focus on our recovery journey.

Mental clutter has an equally deleterious effect on those recovering from substance use disorder. Mental clutter can manifest as persistent worries, regrets, unresolved emotions, and the mental replay of past mistakes or traumatic events. These unsettled thoughts can significantly exacerbate the day-to-day challenges of recovery, sometimes acting as a barrier to the mental clarity necessary for healing and reviving the feelings of guilt, shame, and isolation commonly experienced during active addiction.

Decluttering Your Physical Space

Beginning the journey of decluttering your physical space can be an exhilarating step towards enhancing your recovery environment.

  • Start small: Choose one area or room to begin with and work your way through your space methodically. This approach can prevent feelings of overwhelm and give you a sense of accomplishment as you make progress.
  • Make it a mindful activity: Approach decluttering as a form of self-care rather than a chore. Consider each item’s presence in your life and whether it serves a positive purpose in your recovery journey.
  • Create a serene environment: Aim to create a space that promotes relaxation and reflection. This might mean embracing minimalism or simply organizing your space in a way that feels calming and purposeful.

Applying order and tranquility to your physical space reduces the number of distractions around you and makes clearing your mind of unhelpful thoughts all the more easier.

Decluttering Your Mental Space

Just as tidying your physical surroundings can usher in a sense of calm and order, decluttering your mental space can help you nurturing a serene and focused mindset for your recovery journey.

  • Practice mindfulness: Mindfulness practices can help clear your mind of the clutter of unhelpful thoughts and worries. Techniques such as meditation, deep breathing, or journaling can be excellent tools for mental decluttering.
  • Set boundaries: Learn to say no to commitments that do not serve your recovery or well-being. This helps reduce the mental clutter of overcommitment and stress.
  • Prioritize self-care: Ensure that your daily routine includes activities that nurture your mental health, such as exercise, reading, or spending time in nature. These activities can help keep your mental space clear and focused on recovery.

The Long-Term Effects of Decluttering

The act of decluttering extends beyond just the physical and mental realms. It can improve relationships as well. A decluttered physical space naturally becomes a more welcoming and peaceful environment, making for better interactions with friends and loved ones.

And since the process of physical decluttering forces you to make intentional choices about what to keep in your life and what to let go, it can also enhance your self-esteem and hone your decision-making skills, both necessary traits for improving mental health in recovery.

Embracing Renewal as You Recover

Decluttering your life can be a cathartic step towards healing and recovery. It’s about more than just tidying up; it’s a commitment to fostering an environment, both internally and externally, that supports your mental health and recovery.

As you embark on your spring cleaning this season, remember that each item discarded, and each negative thought released brings you one step closer to a clearer path to a healthy life.

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The GateHouse is Central Pennsylvania’s leader in accredited recovery care, recognizing the unique challenges individuals face on their journey to recovery. For 50 years, we have helped individuals in our community restore their lives and rediscover the strength of the human spirit.

We provide each client with a support system that helps them break the cycle of substance use disorder and put them on the path to recovery. The GateHouse is here for you, whether you need outpatient support,transitional living, or residential extended care programs. If you’re looking for help now, give us a call at 717-393-3215 or reach out to us today to get started.

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The GateHouse Turns 50: An Anniversary Story Featuring Judy Bohner

In December 2022, The GateHouse celebrated its 50th year of offering people a meaningful path to recovery. As part of this celebration, we are spotlighting prominent staff, leaders, and alumni and sharing their stories of their time at The GateHouse.

This month, we’re featuring Judy Bohner, a former resident at The GateHouse who is celebrating 33 years of recovery this month.

Judy Came to The GateHouse Later in Life

Judy Bohner arrived at The GateHouse when she was 46 years old.

While she was certainly not old in a big-picture sense, she was entering the program later in life than most residents.

“I came with a long history of drinking and drug use,” she said. “Nearly 32 years.”

Judy had also already experienced many of life’s milestones, including becoming a parent and being married multiple times. She believed this life experience set her apart, and thus was skeptical of her fellow residents.

“I was going to show everyone how to do this,” she said.

She soon realized, however, that her hubris was keeping her from doing the actual work. When she was encouraged to actually look at herself and her own patterns, she began to recognize that perhaps she was not so above other people’s struggles.

“I had to look at myself honestly,” Judy said. “I started to see that everything I thought other people were doing wrong … I was actually doing myself.”

Bruce Caldwell Held Her Accountable

It was a former Executive Director of The GateHouse, Bruce Caldwell, who wound up playing a pivotal role in Judy’s recovery.

“He is the best thing that ever happened to me,” she said. “He believed in me while also calling me out on my stuff.”

For example, Judy came to The GateHouse with a history of false check scams. When she applied for a job during her time at The GateHouse, Bruce Caldwell called the employer and told them she would be a good hire, but to also keep an eye on her when it came to finances. It was this honest advocacy intertwined with strict accountability for her past actions that made a big difference in her life.

Judy got the job and wound up working there for 12 years.

The bond between the two continued well after Judy graduated from The GateHouse. She even became friends with Bruce’s wife. When Judy celebrated five years of sobriety, Bruce offered her a position on The GateHouse board.

“At a certain point, most people had written me off,” Judy said. “Not Bruce. Bruce became my family.”

The GateHouse Taught Judy How to Build a Life for Herself

Judy’s biggest takeaway from her time at The GateHouse is the independence she gained. She not only learned to be independent from drugs and alcohol, but also to build a life on her own.

“The GateHouse made me grow up,” she said.

When she first arrived, Judy was practically estranged from her family and had had multiple failed marriages. Her substance use disorder left her without a strong community or a sense of purpose. The consequences of this went well beyond her own situation.

“My children did not grow up with a real parent in their household,” Judy said.

Yet through her work at The GateHouse, Judy was able to start over.

“At 46, I learned to be responsible for myself,” she said. “I got both a job and an apartment.”

One of Judy’s most profound memories of her early recovery journey is the night before she left the program. That evening, her father passed away and her counselors at The GateHouse allowed her to go visit him one last time. Judy recalled how healing it was to see him.

“He had written me off a long time ago,” she said, “but now, he could pass peacefully because he knew that I was going to be okay.”

After leaving the GateHouse, Judy remarried but her husband soon passed away. She has now been a widow for 15 years and the independence she cultivated during recovery has been crucial to her building a fulfilling life on her own.

Today, Judy plays an active role in the Alcoholics Anonymous community and has served as a sponsor for 26 years.

“My AA home group has become my chosen family,” she said. And on May 28, Judy will be celebrating 33 years of sobriety with her chosen family.

Now 79 and living in Ocean City, MD, Judy said she is living her best life.

What’s the secret? Something she said she learned at The GateHouse.

“A sense of humor,” she said. “I learned to not take myself so seriously.”

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The GateHouse is Central Pennsylvania’s leader in accredited addiction recovery care, recognizing the unique challenges individuals face on their journey to recovery. For 50 years, we have helped individuals in our community restore their lives and rediscover the strength of the human spirit.

We provide each client with a support system that helps them break the cycle of substance abuse disorder and put them on the path to recovery. The GateHouse is here for you, whether you need outpatient support, transitional living conditions, or resident treatment programs. Reach out to us today!

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The GateHouse Turns 50: An Anniversary Story with David Morgan

In December 2022, The GateHouse celebrated its 50th year of offering people a meaningful path to recovery. As part of this celebration, we are spotlighting prominent staff, leaders, and alumni and sharing the stories of their time at The GateHouse.

Surrounded by a wonderful community and filled with a passion for the arts, David Morgan leads a rich life in recovery.

He said he’s always had an interest in classical music and discovered that both the opera and the ballet stir great emotions in him.

“The first time I went to the opera, I ended up crying,” David said.

The GateHouse is partly responsible for those tears. It was actually a connection he made here that led David to discover his interest in the performing arts. In fact, he and his wife have remained on good terms with that connection—Vicky Parker, his former counselor at The GateHouse—and her husband. They still make regular outings to The Met.

David’s appreciation for the performing arts and the sense of artistic fulfillment he gleaned from it wasn’t built overnight, however. He says members of the recovery community, which included people like Vicky, were his saving grace. When he first came to The GateHouse, he was in desperate need of such a community.

“I was beaten down,” David said.  “I came close to death a couple times.”

David Morgan Needed Something Different

David arrived at The GateHouse after his fifth rehab.

His counselor told him about Bruce Caldwell, who at the time was the director of The GateHouse, and suggested he try the program.

“I got drunk every time I went home again, so my counselor thought I should try something different”, David said. “I would do whatever I was told to do.”

Because David had to pay out of pocket to participate in The GateHouse program, he found he had a real stake in the outcome. He knew he had a lot to work on and recognized his need for a community that would hold him accountable and help him meet the high expectations he had set for himself.

“It was really great being in a group with twenty other guys,” David said. “They didn’t tolerate my ego.”

 Vicky and Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) Changed David’s Mindset

A key to making these changes was getting “locked in” to Alcoholics Anonymous.

“The GateHouse really taught me the importance of AA”, David said.

The fellowship he experienced in AA offered him the structure, tools, and community he needed to forge a new path forward.

David also began doing a lot of service work, serving as both the General Service Representative (GSR.) and an Inter-Group delegate for his home group.

“It was a great restart for me”, he said.

Between AA and the work he did with his counselor Vicky, David began to gain new insight into the nature of his substance use disorder and the path forward for his recovery journey. At the time, David and his wife were separated, and he frequently expressed to Vicky how he needed to repair the relationship.

“Vicky helped me understand that I wasn’t necessarily powerful enough to just ‘fix things,’” David said. “I really had to go within and work on myself.”

A Renewed Love of Life

After three years of separation, David and his wife got back together – a testament to the progress he made in AA.

After leaving The GateHouse, David worked as a roofer in Lancaster, staying with the company for quite a while and finding community in unexpected places—like his superintendent, who was on his own recovery journey. This shared experience allowed David to be open and honest with his employer, which made his first job after The GateHouse a very positive experience.

“My whole life now revolves around AA,” David said with a grin. “All my friends, people I go out with, people I do things with, they’re all in AA. And it’s a great life.”

To this day, he continues his work with the AA community and finds great meaning in acting as a sponsor for other members.

“Getting sober is the best thing that ever happened to me”, David said.

When asked what he found to be the most rewarding part of his journey to recovery, David said it was finding a “sense of willingness”.

“In your head you think you do everything yourself, but you can’t figure it out no matter how smart you are,” he said. “You have to be willing to listen and change.”

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The GateHouse is Central Pennsylvania’s leader in accredited addiction recovery care, recognizing the unique challenges individuals face on their journey to recovery. For 50 years, we have helped individuals in our community restore their lives and rediscover the strength of the human spirit.

We provide each client with a support system that helps them break the cycle of substance abuse disorder and put them on the path to recovery. The GateHouse is here for you, whether you need outpatient support, transitional living conditions, or resident treatment programs. Reach out to us today!

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The GateHouse Turns 50: an Anniversary Story with Dan Schultz

In December 2022, The GateHouse celebrated its 50th year of offering people a meaningful path to recovery. As part of this celebration, we are spotlighting prominent staff, leaders, and alumni and sharing their stories of their time at The GateHouse.

When Dan Schultz first came to The GateHouse, he was broken.

“My bottom led me to a straitjacket in a hospital,” he said. “I arrived at The GateHouse a defeated individual … alcohol had defeated me”.

With the help and guidance of The GateHouse and its team, Dan’s recovery journey would take him from the depths of despair to the promise of a meaningful life. Now a veteran alumnus of the program, Dan continues to see this promise fulfilled by giving back to the recovery community in every way he can.

This is his story.

Dan Arrived at The GateHouse Looking for Change

On May 6, 1982, Dan Schultz crossed the threshold of The GateHouse and embarked on his journey through recovery.

At 34, he was searching for a way to transform his life. Alcohol, his substance of choice, had riddled him with personal issues, legal troubles, and a complete lack of structure and stability.

His first stop was the Caron Foundation in Wernersville, PA, where he completed rehab. The Foundation recommended The GateHouse. In 1982, the typical program stay at The GateHouse was about 90 days, but Bruce Caldwell, the executive director of the organization at the time, made an exception for Dan. Dan had pending court dates for a series of DWIs back in his hometown of Rochester, NY, and needed the time to move through the process before he could fully settle into his recovery plan.

On November 11, 1982, a Rochester court sentenced Dan to 60 days in county jail. After doing his time and serving his sentence, Dan returned to The GateHouse, the best place he believed for him to transition back into a sober community post-incarceration.

“I felt safe there,” Dan said. “I knew if I stayed in Rochester, I would have never stayed sober.”

The Foundation for A New Way of Life

The GateHouse provided Dan with a completely new way of living his life.

“I was given a sense of structure,” he said.

Part of that structure was attending Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) meetings regularly. This offered Dan access to the recovery community he was so sorely needing.

In AA, he became acquainted with the concept of “People, Places, and Things,” a general idea that stresses the importance of recognizing the “people, places, and things” that are typically the drivers of alcohol and drug cravings and replacing them with something else. With The GateHouse, he had the opportunity to do just that.

“I had never lived with 18 men before,” he chuckled, remembering the sober group outings that were part of the program. “They gave us the opportunity to feel somewhat normal … to learn that it’s possible to live without alcohol.”

Another part of Dan’s recovery structure was his relationship with his counselor, Rick Reed. The two men were close in age and thus held a certain kinship in common. Dan could relate to Rick.

“He helped me realize that your mind is a very very complex thing,” he said. “But also, that things weren’t always as earth-shattering as I thought them to be.”

Counseling sessions at The GateHouse gave Dan the opportunity to really look inward and begin the journey of rebuilding his self-esteem. Eventually, he rediscovered religion, brought it back into his life, and started mending relationships within his family.

Next up was repairing his sense of responsibility and purpose. During his time at The GateHouse, he found meaningful work in maintenance in the local community. Throughout his time at The GateHouse, his job gave him a sense of stability; so much so that he remained with the company long after his exit from the program, ascending to the management level, where he remained until his retirement in 2016.

“Keep It Simple”

Community. Structure. Self-respect. These are the tools Dan was given at The GateHouse. These are the tools that have helped him sustain his recovery since he left. A year ago this month, he celebrated 40 years sober.

From that first broken day in 1982, Dan has come a long way, having built a meaningful life for himself. In 1987, he remarried and became the parent of two stepchildren. He’s also a grandfather to five grandsons, who he says are “a real blessing and a wonderful reward of sobriety.”

He’s never too far from The GateHouse, either. He is literally a 15-minute walk away. And he remains very involved in the recovery community. He speaks regularly with groups in the senior recovery program at the Caron Foundation. He also serves on the board of the 521 Club, a non-profit recovery community organization in Lancaster.

“I try to give back to the community,” Dan said. “I try to help them when I can.”

Asked to pinpoint what most helps him maintain his recovery, he says it’s all about keeping it simple.

“I want to be sober more than I want to drink,” Dan said. “I want the life I have today. In early sobriety, it’s so easy to get overwhelmed. Keep it simple. Don’t drink. Go to meetings.”

It’s the meetings, Dan said, where people are reminded that they’re not alone in their journey.

“If you keep going long enough,” he said, “you’re going to hear your story from someone else.”

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The GateHouse is Central Pennsylvania’s leader in accredited addiction recovery care, recognizing the unique challenges individuals face on their journey to recovery. For 50 years, we have helped individuals in our community restore their lives and rediscover the strength of the human spirit.

We provide each client with a support system that helps them break the cycle of substance abuse disorder and put them on the path to recovery. The GateHouse is here for you, whether you need outpatient support, transitional living conditions, or resident treatment programs. Reach out to us today!

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The GateHouse Turns 50: a Spotlight on GateHouse Founding Member, Jere Stabley

This year, The GateHouse is celebrating its 50th year of offering people a meaningful path to recovery. As part of this celebration, we want to spotlight prominent community members who have played an integral part in making The Gatehouse what it is today.

Jere Stabley, one of the original founding members of The GateHouse, was one of the key players whose hard work and dedication helped lay the foundation for what The GateHouse is today.

The GateHouse Had Humble Beginnings

Now a staple in the Eastern Pennsylvania recovery community, the GateHouse had modest beginnings. It began in 1971 when a group of friends recognized the need for a halfway house in Lancaster. Before The GateHouse, the area didn’t have a place for people to go after rehab where they could receive support as they rebuilt their life in sobriety.

Jere Stabley – now 95 years old and 53 years sober – was part of that group of friends. He met many of his fellow GateHouse co-founders when he arrived at Alcoholics Anonymous in 1969.

In reflecting on the start of the program, he recalls how “there were no facilities in Lancaster for detox. We had individuals coming from all different programs, but nowhere to go after getting sober.” And thus, the idea for The GateHouse was born.

He said he remembers searching for the perfect place for the new halfway house like it was yesterday. The team initially looked at some properties south of Lancaster, but the streets were too busy and too noisy. That’s when they landed on a house in Lititz, PA.

Funding for the house initially came from the Lancaster County Office of the National Council on Alcoholism, but much of the initial handy work was done by Jere Stabley and other founding members.

“The house needed a lot of work,” Jere said. “It needed to be cleaned, painted, and the floors had to be redone.”

The group would go on Tuesday and Wednesday evenings and all-day Saturday for about five months until the house was complete.

“It was good therapy for all of us to work together,” Jere said. “It felt good to give something back to the community after taking so much.”

The First Years Were A Community Effort

The GateHouse admitted its first official resident in December 1972. Much like its founding, the first years were a community effort. Jere Stabley recalls the founding members taking turns serving as program director on the weekends.

“It was our responsibility to make sure everyone had something to eat, get to know them, and be a good listener,” Jere said. “We’d often take people to appointments, interviews, or to run errands in our own private vehicles.”

During this time, weekly Alcoholics Anonymous meetings were also established at The GateHouse.

The guiding principle for these beginning years was simply to provide a space for those in recovery to get together and converse.

“We wanted The GateHouse to be somewhere people could take it one day at a time,” Jere said.

He said anyone was welcome; the only rule was that you had to leave if you picked up any drugs or alcohol. Jere emphasized the importance of encouraging others to “not take that first drink.” He envisioned TGH as a place where individuals could meaningfully rebuild their lives.

The GateHouse: 1978 and Onward

For a brief moment, The GateHouse shut down in April 1978 due to competition from other halfway houses in nearby counties. This was quickly rectified, however, when the Halfway Environment for Alcoholics Recovering (H.E.A.R Inc.) was created.

In March 1979, The GateHouse reopened under H.E.A.R. Inc. and admitted its first resident. The GateHouse continued to grow by opening The GateHouse for Women and establishing an outpatient program.

Even as The GateHouse continues to expand its robust programming, it maintains the simple, yet profound values of its founding members: to provide community and support for individuals in recovery. As Jere reiterates, “It’s all about taking it one day at a time. Without Alcoholics Anonymous and The GateHouse, I wouldn’t be here.”

The community remains the bedrock of The GateHouse to this day, and its continued legacy of offering people a path to recovery remains as important as ever.

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The GateHouse is Central Pennsylvania’s leader in accredited addiction recovery care, recognizing the unique challenges individuals face on their journey to recovery. For 50 years, we have helped individuals in our community restore their lives and rediscover the strength of the human spirit.

We provide each client with a support system that helps them break the cycle of substance abuse disorder and put them on the path to recovery. The GateHouse is here for you, whether you need outpatient support, transitional living conditions, or residential treatment programs. Reach out to us today!

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